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From the Desk of Bill Cirone...
September 24, 1999
Steps To A Good Parent-Teacher Conference
There are several steps parents can take that can help maximize the effectiveness of a parent-teacher conference.
First, get to know your child's teacher early in the school year, before conferences are scheduled or problems develop. Then be sure to plan for the conference. Talk to your child about strengths and weaknesses, likes and dislikes. Jot down questions. Glance over your child's textbooks and the work he or she brings home. Think about your child's learning style and study habits.
If it's possible, it's always better if both parents are able to attend the conference.
Be sure to ask questions about your child's schoolwork, his relationship with students and teachers, tests taken or scheduled, and any class or school rules you don't understand.
No matter what transpires, stay calm. Don't get angry or defensive. Don't argue, or try to assess blame. Concentrate instead on developing a good working relationship with the teacher. This is in the best interest of your child.
Make it a point to share any information that might help the teacher develop a better understanding of your child.
Decide with the teacher what, if anything, needs to be done to help your child. Agree on plans and on any special assistance your child needs before you leave.
Talk with your child afterward and discuss what was decided. Even high achieving students sometimes have anxiety when they know their parents are meeting with their teacher.
Follow up after the conference. Implement your end of any agreement. Keep in touch with the teacher. If the plan doesn't seem to be working, or if new problems develop, call the teacher and ask for another meeting.
Be sure to ask for additional help if you aren't getting results. If the teacher isn't helpful or progress isn't being made, talk with a school counselor or call the principal's office to see what you should do next.
Always remember that schools and families work best when they are working together toward the same goal: providing all children with equal access to the best possible education. Together, these two institutions can have a very powerful positive effect on young lives.
© Santa Barbara County Education Office
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