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Smart Girls is a smart book. The author begins by
looking back on the careers and lives of the gifted girls she had
classes with, starting in elementary school. Her follow-ups over 10
and 20 year periods produced surprising and disappointing results. Few
of the smart girls that had been identified in elementary school as
gifted had achieved the expected the high paying, high profile careers
that had been predicted for the “Leaders of Tomorrow,” or even had
finished college. Most of them were homemakers or had lower level
jobs. The author wanted to know why.
Part of the reason is that, until recently, there have
been almost insurmountable barriers to women’s achievements, not the
least of which is the commonly held belief that women don’t need their
own careers, since they can attach themselves to a successful man.
Other barriers include the constant and continuing promotion of “pink”
colored femininity: dolls, makeup, romance, sexism, and
discrimination. There has also been a lack of research, accompanied
with the expectation that women will defer to men to achieve harmony,
children, and a happy home life.
It is important to note that past failures of women
to achieve prominence, especially in technical careers, is not based
on intelligence or ability -- but cultural, environment, and
social pressure to “fit-in” to the “Culture of Romance” that dominates
literature, fashion, media and work. Beginning in junior high, many
girls start to be influenced by this and lose interest in math,
science, and other technical areas.
As long as girls are pressured to find romantic
relationships over all else, they will continue to have a difficult
time rising to the top in great numbers. It is a rare woman who can
fight against all odds to become all she can be, including wife and
mother if she chooses to integrate those into her life. The author
profiles some famous women that have achieved greatness: Marie Curie,
Eleanor Roosevelt, Margaret Mead, Gertrude Stein, Maya Angelou,
Georgia O’Keeffe, and others who refused to accept mediocrity. It was
found that girls who had mentors in college or attended “all
girls” colleges were more likely to demonstrate higher levels of
achievement in math and hard sciences.
Today, there are changes taking place in the workplace
and at the secondary school level to encourage girls to not “drop out
of the running.” – that perseverance will stand by them longer than
looking back and saying, “I should have done the math,” “stayed in
medical school,” and so forth. #What is needed is for educators and
parents to refocus and treat girls’ academic and career goals as equal
to boys’. Since they are on equal footing intellectually, society must
change to promote them.
Your daughters need your love and support for
their abilities, the same as your sons, so that they are not
handicapped by negativity or indifference.
This book will help guide you towards helping your
daughter become fulfilled and reach her full potential.
David L. Jones GATE parent |