MOTIVATION: wanting to do it!
Active parent involvement has been associated with
numerous benefits for students, including increasing student motivation and
engagement in school. When it comes to
homework, though, parent involvement can take many different shapes, not all
which have a positive impact on learning.
Teachers and parents need to communicate and come up with the best ways
to help each student. To know what role
to play, parents must understand what the teacher is trying to do. What one parent views as helping out, a
teacher might perceive as interference or cheating. And what a teacher might take for granted
that parents can do-such as signing off on homework or checking spelling
words-a parent may not have the skills or the time to follow through on.
It is equally important to be clear
about what kinds of involvement are actually beneficial to students. Studies have shown that parents who offer
rewards for grades, or who punish students for poor performance, may actually
decrease students’ motivation to do well.
Fear of punishment, anxiety about meeting parents’ expectations, and
worrying about being compared to siblings not only cause stress for students,
but can also detract from their intrinsic motivation and interest in
learning. This is not to say that
parents shouldn’t be invested in how their children are doing in school. Rather, it suggests that there are more
productive ways for them to be involved and show their interest in students’
progress.
To
help children be successful with work at home and at school, parents can:
·
Create a place at home that is conducive to
studying. Good study environments are
will-lit and quiet. Although every
child’s learning style is different, most educators agree that students do best
when the television is off and the student is free from distractions.
·
Set aside a
specific time for homework each day.
This might involve limiting television-watching or phone calls until
homework is finished. Parents should be
careful, though, not to pit homework against activities students enjoy, or to
create a situation in which students rush through their work in order to get
back to the other activities. Family
routines – which include set homework times – have been linked to higher
student achievement.
·
Make sure
students have all the supplies they need.
Parents should check in with students ahead of time about the kinds of
projects they will be doing: It might be
tough to find a calculator or a report cover at 9:00 the night before an
assignment is due.
·
Be available if
students have questions. Parents can
support their children by looking over homework and giving suggestions, but
should not do the homework for them.
·
Make an effort to
communicate regularly with teachers. If
necessary, parents should ask teachers to clarify their expectations. It is also a good idea to find out ahead of
time what kinds of resources – such as tutors- are available to students if
they need help.
·
Avoid linking
rewards or punishment to school performance.
While it is important for parents to recognize students’ achievements,
they should avoid external motivators for performance. Instead, parents should emphasize the value
of learning and show they appreciate their child’s hard work.